I never had a large sex drive, but it was certainly more than it currently is. Loneliness, anger and self-esteem lowering are normal reactions by a person feeling their sexual human needs frustrated by the voluntary rejection from partner. I do not have sexual needs, as far back as I can recall I never really did. We have never had sex. Have your feelings of resentment about your married sex life prompted you to shut down emotionally and pull away from your spouse? This means speaking up and holding him to his marriage vows. Married men and women, on average, have sex with their spouse 58 times a year, a little more than once a week, according to data collected from the General Social Survey, which has tracked the social behaviors of Americans since
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Sex is just not all that important to me.
One or both may be extremely afraid of hurt or rejection, or just entirely apathetic to their partner.
They were busy, busy, busy with jobs and kids in their late teens. While these other aspects may play a big role in sexual inactivity, talking explicitly about sex is essential.